Sometimes

Sometimes you meet a person; a person who winds up being very special.  A person, who, in an instant can insinuate themselves into your mind and you think, wow!

It is sometimes human nature to wonder...what if I had known this person 10 years ago, or 5..or 2.

Wrong way to think.  Let me tell you why.

You weren't the same people at those points in life.  It took all of your life experience, learning, loving, all of that to bring you to where you are today.

When you love a person, you love all that brought them to be whom you love.  Without their life experiences to shape them, they would be different people and therefore not the one you love or the one you have that deep connection with.

People come into our lives at the right time.  It's up to us to recognize it and cherish that time.

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